Immersed at depth, engulfed by the ocean, struggling for breath, claustrophobic, fearing sharks, feeling as if you are succumbing to the current, and more— scuba diving can be overwhelming. Feeling powerless and incapable underwater is terrifying. Anxiety when diving can happen at any time for many reasons. Whether you’re a beginner or an experienced diver, scuba diving can sometimes feel both scary and daunting. Acknowledging your feelings and fears whilst rationalizing and preparing helps Scuba Women overcome nerves and rejoice in their scuba experience. With the right guidance and preparation, you can overcome those nerves and embrace scuba diving with confidence and excitement.
Diving should be an enjoyable and exhilarating adventure, with Scuba Women at peace in the subaquatic world. Scuba diving transports scuba divers to an underwater world with endless, ever-changing seascapes and vistas. Exploring and interacting with diverse flora and fauna, divers are weightless, ebbing, and flowing with the current. Learn practical strategies to cope with anxiety underwater with my 11 best tips to become a Confident Scuba Woman.
It’s Never Too Late to Become a Confident Scuba Woman – Take the Dive with Me, Tanya.
Anxious Scuba Diver to Confident Scuba Woman
Disclaimer: Please note I am not a medical professional. I have collated these tips through personal experience as a Scuba Woman who has suffered from anxiety and nerves before, during, and after dives. I am sharing the following tips as they have worked for me, making my diving experience a joy. Please seek medical advice for your own situation.

Confident Scuba Woman Tip 1: Dive with a Trusted Dive Centre
Feeling secure and confident significantly alleviates dive-related anxiety. Seek out a reputable dive center that properly maintains dive gear, addresses your concerns, and, above all, prioritizes your safety. Conduct thorough research and utilize resources like Facebook dive groups for firsthand insights and recommendations to identify well-regarded dive centers. Platforms such as TripAdvisor and Google reviews offer valuable feedback on trustworthy, proficient, and welcoming dive operators.
A reputable dive company boasts knowledgeable personnel and skilled instructors who readily provide assistance, inspect equipment, and share valuable local insights, ensuring each diving excursion is enjoyable and memorable for all the right reasons. They will often have the option of a guided dive. An experienced guide knows the best way to navigate the dive site, is familiar with its hidden marine life, and knows the currents, allowing you to relax and immerse yourself in the dive without the fear of getting lost. Communicate any potential concerns with your guide pre-dive so they can assist you in managing them.

Confident Scuba Woman Tip 2: Dive with a Trusted Buddy
Diving with a trusted buddy not only enhances safety but also adds to the enjoyment of the experience. You rely on each other for support, communication, and assistance in case of any unexpected situations underwater. Plus, sharing the beauty of the underwater world with someone you trust can make the adventure even more memorable. Trusting your buddy allows you to put strategies in place for anything that may make you anxious. Holding hands with your buddy throughout the dive can be reassuring until your confidence builds.
I can get very anxious towards the end of a dive when I become more buoyant and have this horrible feeling I may float away. Talking this fear through with my buddy and recognizing the cause of my anxiety allowed us to formulate a plan. In this instance, we devised 4 different strategies.
- I would squeeze my BCD and use my dump valve to release any trapped air from my BCD.
- We would perform our safety stop on a mooring line so I would have something to hold on to
- I would signal to my buddy I was having issues and hold their hand
- I would signal to my buddy, and they would provide me with an extra weight
Having faith in my buddy and knowing there were options in place greatly reduced my apprehension. Discussing concerns before diving and formulating action plans to overcome any problems will help reduce any anxiety.

Confident Scuba Woman Tip 3: Communicate Early and Often
Communicating early and often can relieve nerves and reduce anxiety. If something isn’t feeling right, or you are suffering from anxiety or nerves, sharing with your buddy early alerts them and allows you to relax a little.
I had an instance where the current was strong, and I was out of breath trying to keep up. I signaled my buddy before I began to panic. They, in turn, slowed down so we could rest, signaled for us to drop a couple of meters in the water column to get out of the strong current, and we continued the dive at a more leisurely pace. I regained control of my breathing and anxiety, and a potentially dangerous situation was avoided. Communicating early means potential issues can be recognized and averted, making you a more Confident Scuba Woman.
Know your hand signals and communicate confidently with your buddy and guide. Sometimes we make up our own if there is a particular concern. Knowing you are understood underwater helps relieve nerves.

Confident Scuba Woman Tip 4: Understand the Dive Briefing
Understanding the dive briefing is crucial for reducing anxiety and ensuring a safe and enjoyable dive experience. Familiarize yourself with the dive site, including its features and potential encounters. Know the planned dive duration, turnaround time, and procedures for dealing with factors like strong currents. Knowledge helps to alleviate anxiety.
Ask questions and raise concerns. When I dived Wolf Rock, the dive briefing was daunting, and I was nervous about the potentially strong current and having to “claw” my way over the rock. I voiced my concerns to our guide, and when we reached Wolf Rock, she went with me and demonstrated what I needed to do. It gave me the confidence to enjoy one of my best dives. Ask questions if you are unsure of anything.
Don’t hesitate to ask questions or express concerns during the briefing. Sharing your worries can lead to tailored guidance, as I experienced diving at Wolf Rock. Voicing concerns allowed for personalized support from the guide, boosting confidence and paving the way for an exceptional dive.
Know the color of your buddy’s snorkel, wetsuit, and fins, so there is no confusion underwater. If there is a guide, check out their dive gear as well.
To reduce nerves when diving, remember the motto “know the dive plan, dive the dive plan.”
Confident Scuba Woman Tip 5: Know your triggers
Know what makes you anxious, think about it rationally, and plan your responses. Learn about the marine animals you are visiting to lessen the fear. Being a strategic diver helps to overcome anxiety.

Experiencing anxiety due to poor visibility while scuba diving is common but manageable. Focus on controlled breathing and staying close to your buddy or guide for support. Consider using a dive light if conditions allow, and practice relaxation techniques beforehand to stay calm. Maintain a positive mindset and focus on enjoying the experience, communicating any concerns with your dive instructor or buddy for reassurance. Additional training in low-visibility diving may be beneficial for long-term confidence. Prioritize your comfort and safety, taking things at your own pace.
This is an excellent opportunity to use your logbook and turn it into a dive guide for yourself. Record your reactions throughout the dive, and use your notes to improve subsequential dives. The benefit of hindsight and talking to other divers can give you better insight into an anxiety-inducing situation. Include all the amazing marine life you will see, and also note the thickness of your wetsuit, weights used, and conditions. Use your notes to improve subsequential dives. What could you have done better in a particular situation? Write down any tips you have received. Every dive, I learn something new and apply it to the next dive.
Confident Scuba Woman Tip 6: Ensure Your Mask is Comfortable & Leak-Free
If you only buy one piece of dive equipment, get yourself a well-fitting scuba mask. Defog your mask before every dive. Having a mask that fogs up or continually leaks can cause anxiety. Once in the ocean, I put my face into the water to ensure my mask isn’t leaking or fogging up. I often glimpse the bottom, and excitement overcomes any nerves. Not being able to see out of your mask clearly can be stressful. Simply spit into your mask, rub it around, and rinse with water, but nerves tend to cause a dry mouth. Make anti-fog part of your dive gear, or diluted baby shampoo works well. Get your buddy to check for stray hairs caught in the mask before entering the water to help prevent leaks.

When learning to dive in open water, one of the skills is taking off your mask underwater. It terrified me. I spent a sleepless night worrying about performing the skill. In my mind, removing my mask underwater equated with me not being able to breathe underwater. It was an irrational fear but a very real one. Rationalizing my trepidation helped – I knew I had swam in the ocean and also knew I could breathe through the regulator. Performing the skill for the first time, I was still nervous but overcame my terror. I completed the skill without issue and even repeated it to build my confidence. It was an easy skill to do but had built up in my mind as an impossible task.
Confident Scuba Woman Tip 7: Take Your Time and Be Comfortable
Typically, there is not much room on a dive boat; divers get ready at different paces, and it can feel rushed and chaotic. Take your time, be the last in the water, and complete your PADI Buddy Check with your buddy. I get them to check there is no hair in my mask, and I ensure everything is comfortable. When I first learned to dive, I tried to keep up and often got into the water, feeling flustered and unprepared. I now go at my own pace and do not get into the water until I feel ready. I always get the divemaster to double-check everything. It makes me feel more secure. I always complete a buddy check – sometimes twice. Establish a routine that soothes any nerves and stay with it. Remind yourself as a Scuba Woman you are here to enjoy the experience.

Confident Scuba Woman Tip 8:Complete a Buoyancy Check.
Completing a buoyancy check before a dive can significantly alleviate anxiety by ensuring that you feel comfortable and in control underwater. By fine-tuning your buoyancy, you can achieve effortless movement and stability, reducing the risk of accidental collisions or sudden descents. Knowing that you have mastered buoyancy control enhances your confidence, allowing you to focus more on enjoying the beauty of the underwater world rather than worrying about unintentional mishaps. Additionally, a proper buoyancy check helps you conserve energy and air consumption, prolonging your dive time and overall enjoyment of the experience. Overall, investing time in mastering buoyancy can transform your diving experience from stressful to serene, empowering you to explore with ease and confidence.
Confident Scuba Woman Tip 9: Regularly Check Your Gauges
Regularly checking your air gauge can significantly lessen anxiety during dives. Keeping your gauge tucked securely inside your BCD ensures easy access and peace of mind throughout the dive. By monitoring your air supply consistently, you can effectively manage your breathing and gauge your air consumption. Communicating with your buddy about dive duration and air levels adds an extra layer of reassurance. Performing a controlled descent aids in conserving air while periodically checking your gauge and computer, which allows you to track your progress and adjust accordingly. Knowing your expected air levels at different stages of the dive helps you stay on course, reducing nerves and fostering confidence. Additionally, adjusting your dive plan, breathing, or ascending slightly can help conserve air and alleviate anxiety if you find yourself using more air than anticipated. Taking control of the dive parameters empowers you and enhances your overall diving experience.

Confident Scuba Woman Tip 10: Dive Within Your Limits
Knowing and diving within your limits is important for reducing anxiety and ensuring a safe and enjoyable diving experience. Understanding your personal capabilities, including your comfort level with depth, currents, and dive duration, allows you to plan dives that match your skill level. By staying within your limits, you can dive with confidence, knowing that you are well-prepared to handle any challenges that may arise. Communicating your limits with your dive buddy or instructor promotes mutual understanding and helps tailor the dive to accommodate everyone’s needs. Remembering to prioritize safety over pushing boundaries fosters a sense of control and relaxation underwater, ultimately leading to a more fulfilling and stress-free diving adventure.
Confident Scuba Woman Tip 11:Maintain Healthy Dive Practices
Maintaining dive health practices can significantly alleviate anxiety before, during, and after diving. Prioritizing physical fitness through regular exercise and healthy eating habits enhances your overall stamina and endurance, allowing you to navigate underwater with greater ease and confidence. Staying hydrated before a dive helps optimize your body’s performance and reduces the risk of dehydration-related issues underwater. Adequate rest and relaxation before diving promote mental clarity and focus, minimizing stress and anxiety. Taking preventative measures for seasickness can also help alleviate anxiety, allowing you to focus on the dive rather than the discomfort of nausea.

Evolving From a Nervous Diver to a Confident Scuba Woman
For nervous divers aiming to become confident scuba women, a combination of strategic approaches can pave the way to a fulfilling diving experience. Diving with a trusted dive center and buddy provides a sense of security and support, while clear communication fosters understanding and cooperation underwater. Prioritizing familiarity with the dive brief, knowing personal triggers, and ensuring comfort during the dive process all contribute to easing anxiety. Mastering buoyancy control and regularly checking gauges enhance confidence and safety, ensuring a smooth and enjoyable dive. Crucially, diving within one’s limits promotes a sense of control and empowerment, fostering a transformation from nervousness to confidence beneath the ocean.
Diving connects you intimately with nature. Remember, we are lucky to be divers and experience our lakes and oceans and their wonderful environments. Take a feeling of gratitude with you every time you dive and enjoy the dive; it really is a privilege.
It’s Never Too Late to Become a Confident Scuba Woman – Take the Dive with Me, Tanya.
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I am so happy to have found your blog! I am 66 and was an avid diver in the mid- late 80’s but have not been diving in 32 years!
I always loved it and was/am certified in AOW, wrecks, caves and deep water. I am have now completed a refresher review and my pool work is on Sunday.
Looking forward to my “ re-entry” into open water! Nervous, excited but can’t wait 😎 looking forward to reading more!
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Good on you, I think you will be very happy that you are once again an active scuba diver. I truly believe it keeps me young mentally and physically, not to mention all the beauty we get to see.
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